RSVP: It’s Not That Hard, People
Let’s talk about something that seems to baffle even the most intelligent among us—RSVPing. Yes, that tiny request at the bottom of an invitation that asks for a simple “yes” or “no.” It’s not a riddle. It’s not a math equation. It’s not an SAT question designed to trick you. It’s literally the easiest thing you’ll do all week—just respond.
Yet, here we are, with people treating an RSVP like a major life decision. “Oh, I’ll get to it.” Will you? WILL YOU REALLY?
Let me be clear: RSVPs matter. They matter because hosts are not psychics, magicians, or your personal calendar assistants. They are simply trying to create a fabulous event where the food is hot, the drinks are flowing, and there’s an actual chair for you to sit in. But when you don’t RSVP—or worse, wait until the last possible second—chaos ensues.
When Did We All Lose Our Way?
At what point in human history did people decide not responding was acceptable? Is this a result of modern laziness? Are we too busy binge-watching Netflix to send a quick text? Did RSVP etiquette die with handwritten thank-you notes and phone calls that last more than two minutes?
You Can RSVP at Any Time—Just DO IT.
Missed the deadline? Guess what? You can still RSVP. The world will not end if you send a belated response. In fact, hosts would rather you say something late than leave them wondering if you’re alive or have suddenly decided to live off the grid.
“But I wasn’t sure if I could come.” That’s fine—just say that. It’s better than pretending the invitation never existed and then showing up unannounced like a surprise guest on a reality show.
If You Can’t Go, Say So.
Life happens. We get it. If something comes up, don’t just disappear into the abyss. Follow up. A simple “I’m so sorry, but I can’t make it” is far more respectable than ghosting. Nobody wants to be that person who “forgets” to say they’re not coming but then posts a beach photo the day of the event.
RSVPing = Class & Consideration
If you consider yourself a person of class, elegance, or basic human decency, then RSVPing is non-negotiable. It’s right up there with sending thank-you notes, chewing with your mouth closed, and not discussing politics at the dinner table.
So, the next time you receive an invitation, be an adult. RSVP. Not later. Not next week. Now. Your host (and their seating chart) will thank you.