Fifty and Fabulous: Life’s a Rollercoaster, but I love the Ride!
As I stand on the brink of 50, I can’t help but feel a mix of emotions—a cocktail of joy, humor, and a dash of “what the heck is going on?” But let’s be real, I’m feeling fabulous! I mean, who knew life could get better with age? I’m talking about that fabulous place where you look in the mirror and say, "Yep, I’m still rocking it!" and then laugh at yourself for squinting to see if that’s a wrinkle or leftover eyeliner smudge.
Turning 50 next year is something I’ve embraced with open arms. I’ve made it through the wild jungle of my 30s and 40s—work, relationships, kids, and the occasional meltdown over how to turn on the TV (don’t ask). Now, I’ve unlocked a new level of life where I know who I am, and I’m cool with that. I don’t need to impress anyone—well, maybe myself, and I’m nailing it most days.
Life’s Plot Twists
Now, don’t get me wrong. Life is still life. It’s not all bubble baths and wine nights. Sometimes, it's more like, “Why is my knee making that sound?” and “Did I forget what I was about to say in the middle of the sentence?” Yep, memory lapses are real, people. And don’t even start the endless battle between wanting to enjoy life and eat cake and somehow fitting into my favorite jeans.
But here’s the thing—I’ve learned to laugh about it. Aging doesn’t come with a manual, but I’m figuring it out. You know that saying, “With age comes wisdom”? Let’s say I’ve got enough wisdom to know that most things I used to stress about aren’t worth the extra worry lines.
Joy in the Chaos
Amid all the "life stuff"—the bills, the kids, the jobs, and the unexpected curveballs—I’ve found joy. I’m approaching 50 with a heart full of gratitude for everything I’ve been through. Every lesson, every laugh, every tear has shaped me into who I am today: a woman who can take on the world, even if she has to take a quick nap first.
It’s funny, though. You imagine getting older will make you feel, well… older. But instead, I feel more alive than ever. Sure, my body sometimes has other ideas (thanks, menopause), but my spirit? It’s stronger, more resilient, and fabulous. I’m laughing harder, loving deeper, and living with more intention.
Dealing with Life
The real beauty of approaching 50 is that I’ve learned to handle life’s bumps in the road gracefully—or at least with a good sense of humor. Life still throws its challenges my way, whether parenting grown kids, balancing work, or figuring out what to cook for dinner when I’m exhausted. But I’ve mastered the art of not sweating the small stuff (mostly). And on the days when it all feels a bit overwhelming? I remind myself: I’ve survived this long; I can handle anything.
So here’s to turning 50 soon —funny, fabulous, and figuring it all out as I go. Life may not be perfect, but I’m embracing every moment with joy, laughter, and just a little sass.